The Power of a Sincere Compliment

Every Tuesday is Fish Day at MENY, and I usually go there to buy fish. Recently, a new employee started working there, and he handles every step with great care and professionalism.

Today I said to him, “You’re the best one here.”

His expression changed from surprise, to joy, and then his eyes began to fill with tears.

In that moment, I suddenly realized that many people are quietly doing their best in life and at work, yet rarely receive recognition from others.

A sincere compliment costs almost nothing, but it may stay with someone for a very long time.

This small experience also made me reflect on the way I approach treatment.

I should offer more encouragement and positive feedback—not only focusing on physical improvement, but also paying attention to a person’s emotional state and inner experience.

Treatment should not simply be about pushing too hard for a “good result.” It should respect each person’s own pace and encourage change gradually, step by step.

About this article

Personal reflection by Jun Chen. The author’s experiences and interpretations are distinct from medical research findings. General information only; not a substitute for medical assessment, diagnosis or treatment.